Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” Luke 23:34
I wonder what the consensus would be, if a group of people
who claim to be Christian, were to be asked these two questions: “Are we
supposed to forgive people who have not asked for forgiveness?” and, “Are we capable
of harboring an unforgiving attitude to someone who is no longer here?”
As Christians, we often pray the Lord’s Prayer, from Matthew
6:9-13. When the disciples asked Jesus how they should pray, He gave them this
example. One of the lines is, “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those
who trespass against us.” In plain terms this means, we want God’s forgiveness,
and in turn we need to forgive those who sin against us.
We only need to look at the example of forgiveness, which
Jesus showed. It is after His likeness, we need to strive to obtain. He was in
pain, and agony, dying unjustly in a brutal manner, yet He takes a moment to
utter these words, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are
doing.” These murderers were not coming to the foot of the cross, asking for
forgiveness, yet Christ was pleading their case to the Almighty Father.
To the first question, “Should we grant pardon to people who
have not asked for forgiveness?” the answer is, yes. It brings us no value or
compensation, other than a bitter heart, when we hold an unforgiving attitude.
It is best to release it to God. We do not have to put ourselves in a volatile
situation, but we can still have a forgiveness that brings us peace. Why
torture ourselves twice, once for the wrong that was inflicted on us, and
second for the hostile seed growing inside, which robs us of our joy?
To the second question, “Is it possible to hold resentment,
to someone who is no longer here?” the answer is, yes! Unfortunately I have
done that. I was angry at someone who gave up on life. It took me quite some
time to realize that my anger was a form of an unforgiving heart. I had to go
to the Lord, and seek His forgiveness, and I had to yield my pardon to that
person, even though I could not speak or see that person anymore. It was just a
resignation of a stance of bitterness, replaced by God’s peace.
Jesus said we should forgive over and over again. Out of His
ultimate love for us, he bestowed compassion and grace, not after we cleaned up
our act, but while we were sinners. When
someone has passed a hurtful judgment on us, instead of seeking revenge, we
need to seek the Lord, and tap into His spring of mercy and pardon. When we
forgive anyway, we are exonerated from our own bondage of painful resentment.
Dear Father, Help me, in your power, to forgive those who
have wronged me. In Christ I pray, Amen.
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