COME, GIVE ME A KISS


You gave Me no kiss; but she, since the time I came in, has not ceased to kiss My feet. Luke 7:45


My little granddaughter is two-and-a-half years old and as cute as a button. When she comes for a visit, I want some kisses. I will say to her, "Olivia, come give grandma a kiss." Usually, she complies, and as her lips meet mine, my heart melts with love for her. I know that I must be patient and never force her to love me. For Olivia's reciprocal love, I pursue her quietly and patiently. 


Now let's imagine a different scenario. Let's say it's a day where Olivia does not want to kiss me; I could say, "Oliva, come give me a kiss right now, or I am going to spank you." Would a threat make her kiss one of fear of a spanking or a willing one of love? Which kiss would I rather have?


There are two specific kisses of Christ mentioned in the Bible. One was from Judas in betrayal. The other was from the woman from the city who was labeled "sinner" who kissed Jesus' feet in a willing act of love. Jesus accepted both of those kisses, although each kiss had a different motive from the giver. Did He love both of these people? Yes, He did!


I think many have come to Christ in fear, including myself. The first time was pure childlike love that drew me to Him, but the next time was out of high anxiety. Did God accept my approach to Him both times? I know He did. I wonder, however, which approach was done in an act of devotion? My motive for coming the second time was powered by my need for eradication of fear. My doubt indicated my belief that maybe God did not do His work of salvation when I was a little child. The fear of punishment was my motivator.


The prodigal son had words memorized to ask for his father's forgiveness, which makes me think that there may have been a lack of remorse. However, before the son spoke the words, his father looked at his ragged, tattered son from a distance and had great compassion for him. The son did not come home because he loved his father. Instead, he came from his need.


Thankfully, God's love forgave my doubts and filled in all the holes of sincere devotion for Him. I would not threaten my granddaughter for a kiss. God will also pursue us patiently, taking whatever we bring to Him. His love will accept us, no matter what our motives. Fear, however, can lead to doubts. Don't be afraid to come to Papa like a child and give Him a kiss.


Thank you, Christ, for never forcing me to love you. It makes me love you even more. Amen

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